If you are pregnant or have been pregnant then you know what I mean. As soon as that belly starts showing everybody begins to start talking to you. They may offer advice, encouragement, ask questions about due date or they may even just want to touch the belly.
This attention may be nice and wonderful for some but for others it can be uncomfortable or just plain annoying. How you feel may also depend on where your at or how your feeling. After an ultrasound with my second, they noticed something "unusual" so I was very grouchy and didn't want anyone to touch my belly because they might make whatever it was worse. That was illogical but it was how I felt. You also may be more comfortable with people touching your belly if your at a gathering at someone's house you know.
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Many people may also feel a need to comment are your appearance. They may say "You look too big for 6 months" or "Are you sure your 8 months, the baby must be small" or something else. This can often lead you to feel inadequate or that something may be wrong, so it's best to not pay attention. You only need to worry about what your doctor says, not what everyone and their neighbor thinks.
If you are worried about a comment someone has made, then talk with you doctor. Let them know what you are feeling and ask them what they think. They can often provide you will medical data to prove that everything is fine.
The last person you may run into are other ladies who want to tell you all about their pregnancies and compare them to yours. I must admit, I am one of those ladies, I try hard to keep my yap shut, but it was such a joyous time that I love to talk about it. I usually ask the woman if she minds before I start blabbing away though, just to be polite. If you run into someone like this but they don't ask, then it is best to just tell them, what they are saying is upsetting and you'd rather not discuss it.
If you're a pansy like me and hate the idea they might feel offended or cause a confrontation, then you can lie and say something like "This pregnancy has been hard and I have had many complications and really would rather not discuss how perfect your pregnancy was, since it only makes me feel bad." This makes them feel guilty that your having problems but also a boost of ego since their pregnancy went off without hitches. However, if they had complications it may only get them to talk more about all the problems they had so saying that may not help.
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